I have dedicated my life to helping women create more self-love and confidence, which is extremely important in dating.Below is a list of 84 conversation and thought provoking questions to create real connection and help you in your quest for true love. You meet up with someone to make small talk for a few hours hoping to convince them that you are a fascinating, charming person.Secretly, you are hoping to discover the same about them.And while that makes for a fine two minutes of chit-chat, more substantial convesation is obviously necessary to get to know someone.So why not open the floodgates with some compelling questions? ” and spark some in-depth discussions that get a little personal in all the right ways.
I believe that because it has become so easy to find, talk to, and meet up with someone, there is little risk involved and therefore less effort to create real connection.
The examples below are intended to stimulate your own ideas rather than as rules. Why: Is the person about to make any major life changes e.g., leave their 0K/year job to go back to school? Do they see it as a job, a vocation, or are they primarily motivated by climbing the career ladder?
Key goals of a first date are to (a) see if you have a connection, and (b) find out if you and your date have any major areas of incompatibility. Why: Does the person have strong feelings or are they more easygoing and with milder feelings.
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Perhaps, more of a challenge today than ever in history.